Features
What works for the two of you today - and what we're building next. Broken something? Tell us in feedback.
The loop
- LiveLog hurtSix categories, optional note, third-party and AI tags - for the two of you only.
- LiveGive & accept band-aidsOffer a band-aid, accept or decline, withdraw if you need to rethink.
- LiveEmpty wallets → meetWhen both hit zero, meeting in person is how you refill.
Seeing yourselves
- LiveSunflower farm weatherThe field dulls as hurts sit open or wallets run low - and clears as you heal.
- LiveMind mapWhat keeps coming back across categories, on the home screen.
- LiveDay-based band-aid costEach full day a hurt stays open needs one more band-aid (up to 5). Both stay accountable.
- LiveShared logA quiet record of what you've logged together.
Your space
- LiveInvite code pairingCreate a space, share a code, join - then it's just the two of you.
- LiveHome screen iconAdd to Home Screen with the band-aid mark.
- LivePartner nudgesWhile the app is open, get notified when they log a hurt or send a band-aid.
- LiveFeedback boardReport bugs and ideas; upvote what you want next.
- LiveShared playgroundPhoto pile in the cloud - both of you see the same board.
Coming next
Written down so nothing gets forgotten. Timing is honest, not promised.
Your space
- SoonPrivate playground per coupleShipped: shared cloud pile via Supabase Storage. Fancy per-couple albums / albums UI later.
Seeing patterns
- SoonTwo mind mapsYour side and your partner's side, side by side - both of you see both.
- SoonPattern insightsWhat keeps coming back, how long wounds stay open, reopened topics, perception gaps.
- SoonHealed historyA timeline of past wounds and how they closed.
Deeper repair
- SoonClose-wound reflectionAfter healing: who needs to work on this - me, you, both, or neither?
- SoonApology → acknowledgeSay sorry; only your partner can acknowledge it (never yourself).
- SoonDid you ask AI?Optional tag so you can see when outside help was part of the repair.
Warm notes & days
- SoonOccasional notesSend a soft note anytime - separate from hurt and band-aids. Just something you want them to see.
- SoonBirthdays & special daysSave birthdays and named days you care about. The app logs them for the two of you.
- SoonDay-before & day-of nudgesPartner gets a quiet heads-up: “this day is coming soon” the day before, and again on the day.
Fairness & pacing
- SoonCooldown / pauseGently pause a wound that's been open too long.
- SoonWhen one of you is emptyA clear rule for when one partner runs out of band-aids but the other hasn't.
Reaching you in the moment
- SoonTrue push when the app is closedServer push so you still get nudged with Safari closed - needs install + push setup.
- Soon“I’m triggered” check-inA pre-fight pause before things escalate.
- SoonTherapist exportShare your patterns with someone you trust, on your terms.